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Friday, August 3, 2012

5 Things I Love and Admire About You

Steve
  1. You are with me 100% on this journey of parenting 6 children. Just what were we thinking!
  2. You don't mind working. In fact, you don't mind working when the shop floor at John Deere measures 130 degrees!
  3. You would sacrifice anything we own for any one of us.
  4. We share the desire to make memories for our children whether its in photos, little trips, vacations, or just an evening of watching a movie together on the big screen in the great room.
  5. You love my family and they love you.

Nick

  1. You had the guts to make it 8 months as a vegetarian.
  2. You influence others with your views on private education based on your own experience.
  3. You are an Eagle Scout!
  4. You love to travel and do new things.
  5. You are passionate about becoming a dentist!

Alexis

  1. You are a natural at swimming.
  2. You are a girly girl from the tip of your nose to the tip of your toes.
  3. You care about others and it shows in your actions.
  4. You don't mind having a brother in the same grade as you.
  5. You give me a hug every day without fail, sometimes multiple times of day.

Charley

  1. You are my best helper. ALWAYS willing to do what I ask and even offer to help when you see a need.
  2. You have a passion for music. You play 3 instruments fluently plus you like to sing!
  3. You have brown eyes just like me!
  4. You want to be an Eagle Scout just like your big brother.
  5. You demonstrate love and caring for your little brother Joe often.

Xavier

  1. You are smart as a whip.
  2. You are a very fast runner!
  3. You give me hugs without me asking.
  4. You are not afraid to try new things. 
  5. You are a boy through and through. 

Joe

  1. You are an early riser no matter what the bedtime was the night before.
  2. You love playing with toys. There is no need for TV.
  3. You too are all boy.
  4. You love to ride your bike as fast as you can. 
  5. You love to snuggle with Daddy and me.

Cariyana

  1. You love my cooking and complement me almost daily.
  2. You entertain us with your words and actions EVERY single day.
  3. You are a girly girl just like your sister.
  4. You take your chronic illness and short stature in stride.
  5. You love to sleep.

Wednesday, July 25, 2012

A Summer Tea Party

I created a wonderful memory book of a Tea Party we had this summer at Shutterfly.com and embedded it here. My grandmother is 97. Enjoy!

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Monday, July 23, 2012

Changing Before My Eyes

This time I have arisen from bed at 12:30 am unable to sleep with something that has been on my mind all day. Now it keeps me from sleep. CHANGE.  My children are changing before my eyes. Growing up.  All too fast. Many have said they will grow up before you know it. Today I know it is true.

In chronological order of arrival...

ALEXIS. She is of that age when the body is changing. She informed me this past weekend she has been shaving her legs for two months. "Could I have my own razor instead of using yours?" (I actually bought one for her weeks ago but did not give it to her, thinking maybe I would save it for Christmas) I guess its time. Outwardly, she looks more and more like a young lady. She needs guidance with what she can wear and what she cannot. The days of having to force her to wear undergarments because she needed to are over. She has the shape of a young lady. And acne to prove it. And big feet! She now wears a size 8. Wow, when did that happen?

CHARLEY. His body is growing taller. He is finally applying the much needed deodorant daily without being told. He too has a bit of acne. He has graduated to mens size shoes. And his thoughts are more about cars, his first job, and potential profession. I keep telling him he needs to start a journal. His thoughts are many. Mostly voiced to me, hopefully the voice of reason. He and Alexis will need to share that first car so lets be practical.

XAVIER. He is also growing taller and his feet longer. And skinnier! I am frequently amazed at what this boy knows or remembers in regard to detail. He reminds me of brother Nick. Smart as a whip if only you could get him to apply it to something meaningful! He is reluctantly reading the Hunger Games. And secretly enjoying it I am pretty sure. He continues to be impulsive. As not to have a special blog post regarding his latest feat I will type it here. About 3 weeks ago at 4 pm Alexis witnessed and Steve heard a thud/plop. Xavier had jumped from our second story balcony onto the couch in the great room. Thankfully not hurt. Why?  "I don't know!" This prompted a family meeting to discuss the possible awful things that could have happened. Fractures, spinal cord injury, etc. etc. Oh my! Thank you God for watching over my family.

JOSEPH. Joe is reading. And he is initiating reading. He tries to read signs and notes I write. Its so awesome!! He knows he knows and its so cute to see. And his vocabulary is off the charts. We sometimes have to do a double take to see if that is really our almost first grader coming up with words and sentences of what we think is an older child. Joe is a big follower of Xavier and one to watch. He especially loves his bike and goes faster than anyone down a hill given a chance. Lord, please watch over my sons.

CARIYANA. This little miss is too big for her britches more often than not. Quite the entertainer. We call her Nosey Rosey. Always in others business. Often we tell her to "tend to her own knitting!" There is nothing this girl misses.She too is doing some attempts to read things. She gets stuck easier but continues to try. And SO PROUD of herself when she gets it right!!

And me, nearing my 49th birthday...49? When did that happen?

Monday, July 9, 2012

Cummins Update Summer 2012

Life is moving along so fast! It seems there is barely time to do the essentials let alone document our life in this blogging kind of way. Yet, the documentation is very important to me, and to them. Therefore I have arisen early with this intent burned into my mind.

Alexis age 12 has found her passion. Swimming. This winter the junior high offered a co-ed intramurals option for swim team. All the kids have been taking private swimming lessons for months so it was agreed she could join. We also encouraged Charley to check it out. He joined as well. Daily practices. Two swim meets. A taste of swimming at a higher level. Several team mates also swam for Davenport Metro a local private swim club. After the school stint, Alexis really wanted to join "I like swimming!" And her swim instructor Amanda McCord agreed she was ready. Her strokes are nearly perfect, she just needs to build strength and endurance. Alexis was registered for spring and summer sessions for Metro. She loves it. She swims everyday and does not complain even when our schedule dictates she attend the morning practice at 0700 rather than the evening practice. She has participated in multiple local swim meets. She has a passion for swimming!

Charley age 12 found the school swim team to be enjoyable and will do it again next year. He's not so sure he wants to swim everyday like Alexis. Charley spends most of his time in scouting and music activities. He also really enjoyed attending Kid Fit at the YMCA all winter. Dodge ball is his favorite! This summer he attended a week long Jazz Band Camp playing his tenor sax. Alexis also attended on piano. Charley will attend Boy Scout Camp beginning tomorrow for 6 days, enjoying his time away from the family I am sure!

Xavier age 9 continues to be a challenge to parent. He successfully completed 3rd grade at Rivermont Collegiate. Mom is grateful for the summer and lack of phone calls or emails from the Assistant Head Master regarding one boy behavior or another. Whether its the ADHD or just plain attention seeking behavior I don't know. There is never a dull moment for Xavier. Xavier excels at being active. We will attempt to channel that into football energy later this summer with Assumption's Football Camp. Charley will attend too. Out of the blue one day in June, Xavier chose to jump from our great room balcony down onto the leather couch. Impulsive is one adjective I would choose for Xavier! Thank goodness he was not hurt. This action prompted a family meeting about what type of injuries might have ensued from this kind of behavior. He is one to watch!

Joe age 6 is turning into a mini Xavier! Smart as a whip. An excellent reader with an interest in sports. Like Charley he really loved Kid Fit at the YMCA and really hated to see it end in April. He is taking swim lessons along with Xavier and doing really well. He may be ready for daily swimming before too long. Joe still loves his trains but has a new interest. Cars and transformers. He spends hours on the floor with make believe this and that. Its awesome to see him take interest in something other than television and video games like other kids. Our baby boy is growing up. He continues to be the early riser in the family, often up at 0600 with an empty stomach "I'm hungry!" Once he is up, he is up. Leave him in the car long enough he will still take a much needed nap!

Cariyana age 7 is as cute as can be. She too is one to watch in a myriad of ways. Over friendly and very interested in the world! Believe me she does not miss a detail! Though often makes her own interpretation which gets her in the trouble zone! She has avoided all illness and hospitalization this year! We are so blessed. We continue to insert the nasalpharyngeal airway each night for sleep. I know this is benefiting her by her lack of need for a nap and her faster progression at school. The tube is allowing her to get much better rest! Sit down to read with her and you are surprised at what she knows. Cariyana is a girly girl. She loves to play dress-up with Alexis and she loves to come up with her own outfit each morning including accessories!! Look at her below--wearing beads while feeding fish at the lake!

Nick and Angie are living in Angie's parents house on the Augustana Campus for the summer while her parents are on sabbatical for the summer. Nick is staying busy working on some assigned projects at their house including building shelves in the garage and cleaning a storage room and organizing it. Along with those projects he maintains a part-time job on campus in the mechanics garage. In addition this summer he started his very first pre-dental internship. Most of his time will be spent at Community Healthcare. Very challenged patients to be sure. Already he is amazed at what he has seen. Angie is working in the speech therapy clinic on Augustana's campus with children. Both are studying hard for entrance exams for graduate school in hopes of both gaining excellent scores for acceptance to the University Iowa graduate school for dental and speech pathology respectively.


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Here and Now March 2012

Cariyana is a Kindergartner at Buffalo Elementary and loves it! She has gained independence with her own button that opens the front door to the school building and she loves it! She likes to wait until everyone is inside and the door closes just to use her button! Cariyana has been VERY healthy this year. We are continuing to visit with doctors at the University of Iowa to look closely at a surgical option to increase the size of her airway. (We continue to insert a tube each night to aid in her breathing) She wears oxygen just at night. The surgery will be quite the deal and require 4 months out of school. They would like to wait until she is 13 to do it. She is only 7. The long wait is not feasible. Cariyana has been in physical or occupational therapy or a twice a week exercise class at the YMCA since June of last year. She is stronger and more participatory. She is a healthy eater and we are working at curbing the increased weight gain! Academically we are also making gains. Though not at the head of her class, she graduated from her IEP!! Yeah!
This little cutie pie is Joe. He loves sweets! We call him cookie monster! He ALWAYS asks before a meal is barely underway, "Whats for dessert?" Joann keeps him in cookies as best she can. Joe loves Kindergarten and all his new pals at Buffalo Elementary. He adores riding the bus! Joe is in the advanced reading group and is constantly trying to say words he encounters in his environment. Joe is the first to arise each morning. Often before the sun!

Alexis in this photo is washing Charley's hair after swimming with a special shampoo and conditioner. Generally they both do this themselves in thier own shower. For whaterver reason on this night he agreed to let her do it. And boy did she have fun! Alexis and Charley get along very well. And of course, he is a good sport! Alexis LOVED being a 6th grader on the Davenport Swim Team. She has not swam as much as some of her teamates who are members of the Metro Swim team but showed she can finish middle of the pack! She concentrates on her stroke and really looks great in the water. Now all she needs is speed and endurance. Even her flip turns are admirable! We will explore a season with Metro for her this spring. Alexis is in ballet at Jenny's Dance Academy every Monday night. She is a Girl Scout and plays violin, flute, and piano!
Charley is a 6th grader at Walcott Junior High. He (and Alexis) joined the Davenport Swim Team this spring. Charley was not quite so sure about it but now after the first season is over states "It was a lot of fun"!.Charley is a good swimmer but needs more endurance. He will get there! Charley continues to be quite the musician playing cello and alto and tenor saxophone and piano! He earned two blue ribbons or ones at solo festival this spring for his cello and saxophone talent! Charley likes school, especially science! Math is his most challenging subject in junior high this year. Charley is a boy scout and attended an Engineering and First Aid merit badge offering so far this spring.

Xavier is 9 years old and a third grader at Rivermont Collegiate. He loves school. He has a great friend Michael who he speaks of often. He loves his mom-ma and offers me unsolicited hugs and kisses every morning. I love you more than you know! Xavier is begining to sound musical at the piano--finally!! I love to listen to you play. You get better each week! Xavier is a webelo scout.


Monday, January 9, 2012

PARADISE written in 2001 by Karen Cummins

Do you believe in signs? I believe God guides us with signs in our daily life to make decisions. All summer we had a plan to camp in the WI Dells. Finally the weekend arrived. Just one day before we were to leave Steve took his truck to be looked at. What was thought to be a minor problem (a squeak and a leak) ended up to be a significant problem. A sign. Perhaps we should stay home.

The weather forecast was for rain all weekend. A sign. Perhaps we should stay home.

We departed for Yogi Bear campground despite the signs. It rained the entire way there. As we approached our destination it became dark we sat in the wrong check-in lane. Later we learned someone ahead of us had lost his or her site and the campground had to locate another. By the time we arrived at our site it was still raining and dark. The site of course was not the easiest to maneuver and kind of dropped off in the rear. It was difficult to maneuver and a complete challenge especially in the dark because this campground thick with trees was not especially well lit. Thank goodness Steve Thompson was able to come to our aide. Not only did it save a marital argument but made and awful situation much easier. By flashlight and umbrella the camper was finally put in its place. This was our first experience setting up the camper in the rain. Steve got out his rain gear and did a great job. Alexis was a real trooper. She sat in the car seat like a champ. Not a whimper or a peep until the very end.

Now the camper is set-up. Its hot and muggy from traveling so we turn on the air and begin to get things settled for our Subway sandwich supper. By this late time, we are starved. It wasn’t long and we had dimmer lights and no A/C. On went the rain gear to peruse the fuse box. Yes, we had blown a fuse. Apparently the box was set-up for a 20 Amp not a 30 S Amp that our camper prefers. Steve changed over to the other fuse already in the box. Now, we were back in action. It’s not long, and we have blown another fuse. By now we determine we cannot run A/C and the lights at the same time. Now we must find some campground assistance. Eventually the camp maintenance runs us down a handful of fuses. “you’ve got a big camper, you might need these.” All the while it is raining, all night it rains.

It is still raining when we arise the next morning to go to Paul Bunyons Shanty for a hearty family style breakfast. The menu included buttermilk donuts (Mmm Mmm soo good), eggs, ham and sausage, fried potatoes, and pancakes. We ate off of metal plates and drink out of metal cups which got very hot with coffee in them. It was a delicious breakfast.

After breakfast we drive around the Dells to look for possible options for a rainy f=day of fun. We had initially planned on Noah’s Ark, which is the Worlds largest outdoor water park. But, now that it was raining, was it even open? We went to check it out. The ticket staff admitted the weather was not to clear, if it began to lightning and thunder the pools and slides would be cleared until the weather passed, no discount on a wristband for inclement weather. Still 25 dollars each to get in. After much discussion we determined we were crazy. We were going to get wet anyway so why not go to the water park in the rain?

We head back to the camper to get our swimsuits and towels. Briefly Steve and I discuss what if one of us gets pneumonia from our decision? I carefully pack all of our dry clothes and towels in garbage bags and place them in the bike trailer that has a rain roof. It will protect our gear and provide a place for Alexis to nap too. We get back in the truck. It is still raining. As luck would have it, the truck gets stuck in the mud. At this point, I say out loud, “It’s a sign!” Alexis and I get out to the truck and head for the camper. We will stay behind to play in the camper while Steve and Nick go with the Thompson’s to the water park. Quickly both Kathi and Steve say “oh no your not, you’re going”. So, we all squeeze in their Yukon and go to Noah’s Ark.

For the first 2 hours it rains. There is even thunder and lightning. They don’t close down a thing. By this time I am saying the Lords Prayer and praying we all stay safe. Alexis doesn’t think too much of the rain on her head. She is non-committal. Not crying, not happy. We find a corner at a little cabaƱa where they sell alcohol. The corner will keep the bike trailer dry and Alexis and I can sit on a stool. Eventually she falls asleep in my arms. The other visitors have on rain ponchos or have umbrellas. Meanwhile the rest of the clan is running the park, which is not very busy (imagine that!) and are enjoying short lines on all the slides, wave pools, bumper boats, and lazy rivers etc.

Eventually the rain stops. They convince me to leave my post and go on a ride. We choose “Flash Flood”. I should have known by the name. It is a roller coaster like boat ride. The boat climbs ever so slowly up to the top (clickety clack, clickety clack), take a big curve, and whoosh down to the bottom you go into a huge wall of water that literally drops on you just when you think you will remain dry. They call this fun. What was a finally dry body is back to being cold and very wet. It begins to rain.

It rains off and on the rest of the afternoon. The Point of No Return (Nick’s greatest accomplishment!) is a 10 story tall water slide where you go nearly straight down on your back in just 3.5 seconds, feet first. Nick loved this one. Steve Thompson and he were the only two who dared try it. Steve Cummins walked up the stairs at one point, watched a few persons go down (air borne) and decided it was not for him. Nick really loved this one. That love was not inherited from his mother. We left the park at 6 p.m., closing.

The rest of the evening was basically uneventful. Nick enjoyed some mini-golf at the campground. Mom and Dad rested. Sunday morning we awoke to sunny skies—not a cloud to be found. We all ate breakfast together—pancakes, eggs, and sausage. Then, we took a hayride with Yogi where we learned a new song….”I know a bear that you don’t know, Yogi, Yogi…” It’s a catchy, cute song. Also within the campground was a petting zoo which Alexis enjoyed. Nick bought some invisible ink at the general store and drove us nuts with that. Then, Steve and Nick headed back out to the Dell’s to ride the go-karts. The Thompson’s headed to mini-golf. Mom and Alexis stayed behind in the camper for “naptime”.

To make a long story short, Nick was in a head-on collision with another go-kart. He returned to the camper with a completely torn leather sandal, a hugely bruised upper arm, a bruised chest, and couldn’t walk on one foot. There was no obvious sign of broken bones—thank goodness!

We headed for home and not even 50 miles from Yogi the “check engine” light is on. By now we think perhaps we have the “Cummins Curse”. After reading the owners manual we pull over ASAP to re-fuel. Back on the road again, the warning light is off. To top off the trip, we miss our Rockford exit and drive 24+ miles out of our way to turn around and head in the right direction.

Upon returning home, I call my Dad (Grandpa Grell) to tell our latest camping story. I knew he would be entertained by it and I could hear him laughing before I called. Sure enough, he did. One thing he said at the end of our conversation-- “At least I knew where paradise was!” He is absolutely right. HOME!

Saturday, December 31, 2011

Charley-isms

December 20 and 21, 2011 Charley had a pretty bad case of the GI bug. It kept him in his room or the bathroom for over 24 hours feeling lousier than most.

December 22, 2011 (Charley's birthday!) Charley awakens and says to me "Mom, at 3 o'clock this morning I woke up and prayed to God to heal me. And this morning, I feel GREAT!"

You'd have to know Charley but we call these realizations of his....Charley-isms...he often looks at the world slightly different than the rest of us. I am not discounting that God healed him, he just did not realize it was likely he was going to feel good after a good nights rest and more passage of time! (like Mom told him he would)

I could have written an entertaining book about motherhood starting years ago...